As a birthmother, dealing with an unplanned pregnancy, you will have doubts, mixed emotions, and a lot of questions, especially when you are considering putting your baby up for adoption. If you are pregnant and considering adoption for your baby, the process can feel overwhelming, and that’s exactly where an adoption attorney plays a steady, guiding role.
Loving Adoptions by Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”—often misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”) is here to support you every step of the way. From providing you with your own, independent legal representation to understand your rights to finalizing an adoption without your having to appear in court, our role is to ensure the process is ethical and centered on your well-being.
Understanding Your Rights and Choices
You should never feel pressured into any decision. Adoption is carefully regulated to protect the rights and well-being of both birth parents and children. You can start the process before or after your baby is born and have the right to change your mind at any point before signing the consent form. We want you to understand all your options, including parenting, adoption, and other alternatives.
Creating a Personalized Adoption Plan
Your story is unique—and your adoption plan should be, too. We never believe in a “one-size-fits-all” approach. Instead, we work closely with you to create a personalized plan that reflects your wishes, your comfort level, and your vision for your baby’s future.
Matching With Adoptive Parents
We work with loving, carefully screened families from across the United States. You may browse adoptive family profiles to learn about their values, hopes, and daily lives.
If you feel a connection, you can choose to speak with them—without pressure or obligation. It’s simply a conversation, at your pace.
Ongoing Support and Resources
Adoption is more than a legal process—it’s an emotional journey. Our support goes beyond paperwork and court proceedings. We are here to make sure you feel safe, supported, and cared for at every stage.
If you have financial concerns, help may be available. Under Indiana law, adoptive parents may assist with necessary living expenses, including:
- Rent and utilities
- Groceries and clothing
- Transportation
- Medical care and hospital bills
Life After Placement
Your story doesn’t end with placement—it enters a new chapter. Depending on your adoption plan, you may choose to:
- Receive updates, photos, or letters
- Have ongoing communication or visits
- Maintain privacy while knowing you made a loving, thoughtful decision
Call Us When You are Ready
Exploring adoption is an act of strength and love. Whether you are just gathering information or ready to speak or text with someone today, the conversation is confidential, free, and entirely at your own pace. Reaching out does not mean you are committing; it simply means you are getting the clarity and support you deserve.
Call or text us anytime at 800-333-5736. You can also chat with us or email us. Take your time. Ask questions. You deserve to make the decision that feels right for you and your baby.
POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:
Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead use “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” our website will not appear in most expectant moms’ Google search results.