Unplanned pregnancy and considering
Adoption
You only have one point of contact throughout your adoption

You’re not alone.
We have lots of experience providing expectant mothers with information about adoption
Expectant mothers want to know what it will cost them if they want to work with us toward an adoption plan for their baby. The answer is, IT DOES NOT COST AN EXPECTANT MOM ANYTHING. They pay nothing regardless of whether they decide to proceed with an adoption or not.

You only have one point of contact throughout your adoption
You’re not alone.
We have lots of experience providing expectant mothers with information about adoption
Expectant mothers want to know what it will cost them if they want to work with us toward an adoption plan for their baby. The answer is, IT DOES NOT COST AN EXPECTANT MOM ANYTHING. They pay nothing regardless of whether they decide to proceed with an adoption or not.
SOME BENEFITS OF OUR
Adoption services to birth moms
- No obligation to proceed with adoption. You have the ABSOLUTE right to change your mind about placing your baby for adoption, until you sign a consent to adoption, which CANNOT take place until after you give birth.
- If you decide to parent your baby, we will NOT pressure you to reconsider your choice, or try to make, you feel badly about your decision.
- You can have as much or as little involvement as you would like in the selection of the prospective adoptive parents for your baby and have the option to choose from carefully screened and fully investigated families, represented by Kirsh & Kirsh
- Counselling is available at no cost. Although we recommend counselling, we do NOT require it. As a birth mom, it doesn’t cost you any money to participate in counseling, whether you decide to proceed with adoption or not.
- Adoptive parents can pay medical expenses not covered by insurance or Medicaid.





SUPPORT FOR BIRTH MOTHERS
Adoption services
Financial Help
If you believe that placing your baby for adoption is your best plan for your baby, we will provide financial help with living expenses, for such things as rent, clothing, food, transportation, utilities, lost wages, and other pregnancy-related expenses, as allowed by law. We want you and your baby to be okay and will do whatever we can legally do to help you. For more information about how we can help you with placing your baby for adoption, contact us day or night.
Medical Expenses
You choose the doctor whom you want to see and the hospital at which you deliver. If you proceed with placing your baby for adoption, we will see that your pregnancy related medical expenses are paid. We can also help you apply for Medicaid or a similar program in your state. For more information about how we can help you, contact us day or night to learn
about adoption.
Transportation Costs
If you are considering an adoption plan for your baby and need help getting to doctor’s appointments, meetings with the adoptive parent(s) or us, we can help. For more information about how we can help you, contact us day or night.
COMMON STEPS OF THE
adoption process

Step 1
Get to know Us
You can contact us ANYTIME, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. If you call our office, a member of our full-time staff will answer your call. Any contact you make with us will be confidential and does not obligate you to work with us or even talk with us again. If you would like more personalized information about adoption, we can meet with you in person in Indiana or by telephone, Zoom, Facetime, email or text in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, Michigan, and Illinois. After our initial meeting, Rachel will maintain whatever level of contact with you as you would like. Unlike some adoption agencies, we will not schedule repeated meetings with you. At minimum, we ask you to communicate after each doctor appointment to update us on how you and the baby are doing. Rachel will check in with you from time to time to see how you are feeling and to see if you have any questions. We will respect your space and privacy. On the other hand, you can reach us anytime you have a question or concern.

Step 2
Choose a Family
After our initial meeting, Rachel will text or email you links to profiles of families (can we make this into a link to our waiting family page?). Once you select a family Rachel will contact the family and they will reach to you to via text or email. You can also schedule a time to talk with them on the phone, Facetime/Zoom, or meet in person. To your comfort level, the adoptive parents will be involved as little or as much as you would like them to be throughout your pregnancy. In person meetings typically happen at restaurants, parks, and even doctor’s appointments.
All of our families have been carefully screened by a licensed child placing agency. Each family would be delighted to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes.
If you do not want to choose the family, please let us know, and we can pick one for you based on any preferences you may have.

Step 3
Make an Adoption Plan
You make all of the decisions for your adoption. We will tailor your adoption to your specific wants and needs to ensure that you are comfortable with the entire process. We know that this is a challenging decision, and we pride ourselves on ensuring your wishes are met. We will go over a birth plan with you that we will send to the hospital to let them know how you would like your labor and delivery to go.
Again, nothing that you say or do obligates you to proceed with your adoption plan. If at any time you are no longer interested in placing your baby for adoption, prior to signing the consent, simply let us know and we will part ways.

Step 4
Take Advantage of Free Resources
At NO COST to you, we will assist you with
- Your Medicaid application, if you do not have private insurance
- Counseling before and after birth
- Payment of pregnancy-related, living expenses, including medical bills
- Having your own attorney, who can provide confidential, legal advice about adoption

Step 5
Consent Signing After Baby is Born
When you go into labor, please notify us by telephone or text. We will NOT come to the hospital until after the baby is born and you are ready to see us. An attorney from our office typically comes to the hospital 24-48 hours after you deliver and will coordinate with you and the hospital social worker on a time you are comfortable with. You are welcome to have whomever you would like with you for the consent signing. At the time of signing, an attorney from Kirsh & Kirsh will be present. If you wish to have your own attorney, he or she will be present in person or by telephone.
You will not have to go to court in person. After consents have been signed, you will have a phone call with the judge the same day or next business day. This hearing will take approximately 15 minutes. The baby will be released directly to the adoptive parents from the hospital.
While you are in the hospital, you can spend as much or as little time with the baby before and after consents are signed.
Please know that you will never be pressured to continue with your adoption plan. If you do not wish to move forward, even after birth, simply let us know.

ANSWERS TO YOUR
Adoption questions
ABSOLUTELY NOT!. But, Kirsh & Kirsh will not represent prospective adoptive parents who have not been thoroughly investigated by an independent agency, including criminal, child abuse, sexual offender checks.
Moms have told us they felt embarrassed that they have found themselves in the same predicament again. Contact us. We would be happy to work with you again. Things happen. We don’t judge people.
With your permission, we will contact the family who previously adopted. Almost always, they would LOVE to have a sibling of the child they adopted. Furthermore, it is a great opportunity for the kids to grow up together.
However, if you prefer that another family have the opportunity to adopt, we will honor your wishes. It is YOUR baby: you make the decision about who adopts – not us.
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