Many women considering abortion, but don’t get one, do not necessarily choose to give their babies up for adoption, or more correctly, make an adoption plan for their unborn children. Both decisions involve a very personal, private decision, but adoption is not usually the alternative they choose if they cannot get an abortion because of personal preferences, the laws of the state in which the live, timing, among other influencers. We at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh” commonly misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”) believe there are three primary reasons:

  1. The media only reports negative adoption stories much in the same way it only reports on planes that crash and not the ones which land safely.
  2. Some women find the pain of knowing they have a child without being part of the child’s life is too hard to bear. 
  3. Friends and family pressure them to keep the baby, generally for reasons personal to the friends and families without considering the birth mother’s circumstances. Often those same people offer to help the birth mother if she decides to parent the child. Unfortunately, those promises often are short-lived or require a bigger commitment than anticipated when the promises were made.  

Like abortion, adoption is a personal, private choice, but a choice, nonetheless. A woman who finds herself with an unplanned pregnancy, untimely pregnancy, or unwanted pregnancy and not ready for the lifetime responsibilities of parenthood may want to consider putting her baby up for adoption. 

If you would like more information about adoption and available living expenses during and after your pregnancy, we, at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – would be happy to help. Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride themselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment. 

At Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, the four adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh have over 100 years of combined legal experience arranging adoptions. Kirsh & Kirsh has been in existence since 1981. We know Indiana Adoption Law inside and out. We can find a wonderful home for your baby regardless of your social and medical history. Please be honest with us and do not worry that no one will want your baby.  There is always a family waiting to love your child. We have lots of wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices about which family adopts your baby and the extent of contacts you want after the child’s birth. Conversely, if you do not wish to choose the family, we will pick the best family on your behalf.

As attorneys, we at Kirsh & Kirsh, have very high standards for the prospective adoptive parents we choose to represent. All our waiting families are carefully screened and thoroughly investigated. We will arrange for you to have contact with the family you choose on your terms, without families trying to reach you at all hours of the day or night. 

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Plainfield or Indianapolis, Tell City or Bloomington, Newburgh or New Albany, Hammond or South Bend, Frankfort or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, Michigan, or Illinois.

You can call, text and or email us anytime – call/ text: 800-333-5736contact us, or Facebook message. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans.  Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption”.  If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant mom’s search results in Google.