You didn’t see this coming. One test, two lines—and suddenly, everything feels like it’s spinning. You didn’t plan for this. You might be shocked, scared, or overwhelmed. Take a deep breath. You are not alone. Finding out you’re pregnant when you weren’t expecting it can hit hard. This is your life and your choice. Friends and family will likely try to tell you what you should do, but they will not live with the consequences of your decision. Objective, unbiased, non-judgmental, unplanned pregnancy help is out there, and support is closer than you think.

You Have Options

When you’re staring at a positive test, it might feel like your choices are being made for you. But that’s not true. You have options and the right to make your own decision. However, think about the long-term impact of the decision you make.  

• Parenting: Maybe you didn’t plan to be a parent right now—or ever—but that doesn’t mean you can’t rise to the challenge with the right support. 
• Adoption: For some, choosing adoption is a way to give their child a stable life with a family who cannot wait to devote their entire lives to your child, while still having the chance to stay connected, depending on the type of adoption chosen. It’s not “giving up.” It’s making a conscious, courageous decision.
• Abortion: If this is the path you’re considering, seek out accurate, non-judgmental medical advice to understand your choices, risks, and the timeframe involved.

Seek Professional Support

At Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C., we guide birth mothers in creating their personalized adoption plans. We provide free and confidential adoption services throughout the country. Our adoption support team will be by your side every step of the way. 

We are Indiana adoption professionals with 100+ years of combined legal experience arranging adoptions. For over 40 years, we have helped many pregnant women with guidance and support as they go through their pregnancy and decide to put their child up for adoption. 

Choosing a licensed adoption attorney like us ensures you work with professionals who adhere to ethical and legal standards. Our team works 24/7/365, so you can contact us anytime.

Let’s Talk—When You’re Ready

You don’t have to figure it all out alone. If you’re considering adoption or need someone to talk to about your pregnancy, we’re here. Contact us if you would like to understand more about your unexpected pregnancy options. To contact us, call/text 800-333-5736. You can also get in touch with us through email. 

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  

Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.”  If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.