If you are facing an unexpected pregnancy and wondering what to do next, take a deep breath. You have options. No matter what you’re feeling right now, confusion, fear, love, hope, doubt, you are not alone. Choosing adoption is not about “giving up.” It’s about making a thoughtful, loving decision for your child and yourself. For many women, it’s a choice rooted in strength, courage, and deep care.
Take Your Time
You don’t have to have all the answers today. As a prospective birth mother, you may have mixed emotions or a long list of questions. That’s completely normal. Adoption is a big decision, and you deserve the time and space to explore it at your own pace.
At Adoption Attorneys Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (sometimes misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch” or “Krish & Krish”), we provide honest guidance and compassionate support while you consider what’s best for you and your baby.
You Are in Control of Your Adoption Plan
One of the most empowering aspects of modern adoption is that you are in charge.
You can decide:
- The family you want for your baby.
- You can review profiles of carefully screened, loving families. You’ll learn about their values, lifestyle, and dreams, and choose the one that feels right to you.
- The type of adoption you want.
- Open adoption – Ongoing contact, visits, calls, or messages.
- Semi-open adoption – Letters, photos, and updates shared through the agency or attorney.
- Closed adoption – No direct contact after placement.
- How much contact feels comfortable.
- Your voice matters. Your preferences shape the plan.
Free, Confidential Support
Reaching out for information doesn’t mean you are committing to adoption. It simply means you are gathering facts. You can call, text, or chat confidentially. There’s no cost to speak with someone. Just real conversations with people who understand.
You may also be eligible for financial assistance during your pregnancy and recovery, including help with certain living expenses, as allowed by law.
A Decision Made with Love
Considering adoption doesn’t mean you don’t love your baby. For many women, it means they love their child so much that they want to create opportunities they may not be able to provide right now. Whatever you decide, you deserve compassion, respect, and accurate information.
If you want to talk or even just ask a few questions, the team at Adoption Attorneys Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. is ready to listen. Calling or texting 800-333-5736 is free and confidential. You can also reach out by email to learn more about the adoption process and your options. You are not alone in this. Support is within reach.
POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:
Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.