Finding out you’re pregnant — especially when it’s unexpected — can bring a flood of emotions: love, fear, confusion, hope, and uncertainty all at once. If you’re considering adoption for your baby, you are not alone.

In Indiana, adoption is not about “giving up” your baby — it’s about giving them a future filled with stability, love, and opportunity. It’s also about making the choice that feels right for both you and your child.

Why Adoption Can Be a Loving Choice

Choosing adoption doesn’t mean you don’t love your baby — it means you love them enough to want the very best for them, even if that path is difficult for you. Many birthmothers in Indiana make this choice because they want their child to have:

  • A stable and supportive home
  • Financial security
  • A family ready to provide opportunities
  • A future filled with dreams, education, and care

You Have Choices

In Indiana, as a birthmother, you are in control of the adoption process. You can choose:

  • The family that will raise your child
  • How much contact do you want (open, semi-open, or closed adoption)
  • The kind of future you envision for your child

No one will force you to make a decision. You’ll have support, counseling, and time to make the right choice for you. You set the terms of your adoption plan.

How the Adoption Process Works in Indiana

Here’s a simple overview of what to expect if you decide to move forward with adoption:

Find an Adoption Agency or Attorney: Work with licensed professionals like Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”—often misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”) who respect your rights and provide support. We are Indiana adoption professionals with 100+ years of combined legal experience arranging adoptions.

For over 40 years, we have helped many pregnant women with guidance and support as they go through their pregnancy and decide to put their child up for adoption

Create an Adoption Plan: Decide what you want for your child’s future and your role after placement.

Choose an Adoptive Family: Review profiles, meet families, and find the perfect match for your baby.

Delivery and Placement: You’ll still have time to confirm your decision after the birth. You’re supported every step of the way.

Post-Adoption Support: Counseling and emotional support are available to help you heal and move forward.

If You’re Thinking About Adoption…

If you want more information or just someone to talk to, compassionate adoption professionals here in Indiana are ready to listen and help.

We’re here to support you every step of the way. Your journey is personal, and we are here to help you navigate it with care and understanding. Our service is 100% free and confidential. Call/text 800-333-5736. You can also chat or email us.

Positive adoption language Disclaimer: 

Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not know what that means. The most common search term on the internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption?” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby?” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.

Choosing adoption is one of the most courageous, selfless (NOT selfish), and loving decisions a woman can make. If you’re considering placing your baby for adoption in Indiana, you’re probably feeling a mix of emotions — and that’s okay. Adoption agencies and adoption attorneys in Indiana can help you navigate this journey. 

Look for Compassion, Not Pressure

A good agency or attorney will never push you. You should never feel rushed, judged, or manipulated into making a decision. 

Ask yourself:

  • Do they listen more than they talk?
  • Do I feel respected?
  • Do they push me to make a decision?

You deserve space to think, feel, and make the choice right for you and your baby . 

Choose an Agency/Attorney That Puts You First

A reputable and experienced adoption agency or attorney will offer things like:

  • Free, confidential counseling
  • Help create a personalized adoption plan
  • The option to choose and meet the adoptive family
  • Support before, during, and long after placement

You’re not just giving life; you’re creating a future. That matters. Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C(“Kirsh & Kirsh”—often misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”) would be a reliable partner in this journey. We are a team of experienced adoption attorneys in Indiana with combined experience arranging adoptions of over 100 years. 

Know Your Rights

As a birth mother, you have rights. 

  • You have the right to choose the family.
  • You can decide how open or private the adoption is.
  • You can receive financial assistance for pregnancy-related expenses
  • You can change your mind up to the point you sign the legal paperwork, which you will NOT be asked to do until some hours after you give birth.

Any agency that tries to hide these rights or pressure you is not the one for you. With us, you get free, confidential, and no-pressure adoption services. 

Ask About Post-Adoption Support

Adoption is not a one-day event. It’s a lifelong journey, and your healing matters.

Ask agencies/attorneys:

  • Do you offer grief counseling or support groups?
  • Will I still have access to you after the adoption?
  • Do you help birthmothers stay in contact with adoptive families if I want that?

Your story doesn’t end after placement, and you will not be left to walk it alone. Our team will be there for you even after placement. 

Read Reviews from Other Birthmothers

It helps to hear from women who’ve been where you are. Search online, join support groups, or ask the agency to connect you with other birth moms.

Trust Your Gut

More than anything, trust yourself. If something feels off, walk away. You are strong and worthy. You are allowed to change your mind or explore other agencies.

You’re not just choosing an agency/attorney — you’re choosing who will walk you through one of your life’s hardest and most important times.

Take Your Time to Decide

You are not alone. Our caring and dedicated adoption support staff are here for you 24/7. They’ll answer all your questions about adoption and help you understand your options as you decide what is best for you and your baby. 

If you choose to place your baby for adoption, our team will be happy to guide and support you through the adoption process. Our service is 100% free and confidential. 

You can contact us ANYTIME with questions or concerns. Call/text 800-333-5736. You can also chat with us or email us.

Positive adoption language Disclaimer: 

Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.

Facing an unplanned pregnancy can be overwhelming when trying to decide what’s best for you and your baby. Contrary to the outdated phrase “giving up your baby,” adoption is about creating a life plan that reflects love and hope. If you’re considering Mississippi Adoptions, adoption agencies/attorneys like Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh” — often misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”) provide guidance and resources tailored to your situation.

Know About Us 

We are an Indiana-based adoption law firm with over 40 years of excellent service and 100+ years of combined legal experience arranging adoptions. We’re here to discuss all your options nonjudgmentally and assist you in making an adoption plan. 

Should you choose adoption, we will provide you with the information you need to decide on the type of adoption plan (open, semi-open, or closed) that fits your needs.

As a woman facing an unplanned pregnancy, you are the only one who can decide what’s right for you. When you contact us, you’re not obligated to choose adoption. You can take your time in deciding whether this is the right choice for you, without any pressure from us.

We guide birth mothers in creating a custom adoption plan and provide adoption services throughout the country, particularly in Indiana, Illinois, Michigan, Tennessee, Mississippi, and Kentucky.

We can help you select the right family for your baby. Your dedicated team at Loving Adoptions can share all the family profiles that match your criteria.

Adoption is Free for Birth Mothers

Choosing adoption comes with no financial cost to you. You may qualify for financial assistance to help with:

  • Utility bills
  • Clothing
  • Groceries
  • Doctor visits
  • Housing
  • Transportation
  • Hospital bills

We’re here to alleviate financial stress so you can focus on what’s best for you and your baby.

Your Decisions, Your Journey

Adoption is an emotional process, and having access to personalized support can make a difference. Our team is working 24/7, so you can contact us ANYTIME. Talking to us is free and does not mean you have to work with us or even talk with us again.

To contact us, call/text 800-333-5736. You can also get in touch with us through email

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  

Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.”  If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.