Finding out you’re pregnant when you weren’t planning to be can feel overwhelming. Your mind might be racing with questions: What now? What are my options? Could adoption be the right choice for me? You don’t have to figure out everything right now, and you don’t have to do it alone. Adoption Attorneys are ready to support you. So, how do you choose the right adoption attorney?
Questions to Ask
Not all adoption agencies and attorneys are the same. Asking the right questions can help you feel confident about your decision. Here are a few to start with:
- How can we communicate? Would they respect that if you prefer texting over phone calls or face-to-face meetings?
- Can they meet me where I am? Will they come to you if you’d rather not travel?
- What happens if I change my mind? Will they criticize or pressure me?
This is your decision—make sure you understand your options at every step.
Licensing and Experience
Adoption is a life-changing decision, so work with people who know what they’re doing. Here’s what to check:
- Is the attorney licensed in your state and experienced specifically in adoption law?
- How long have they been helping expectant mothers? What do others say about them?
At Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”—sometimes misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”), we’ve spent more than 40 years helping women consider adoption. With over 100 years of combined legal experience, our team is known for being compassionate, ethical, and supportive. We have over 750 5-Star Google Reviews.
What You Can Expect with Loving Adoptions
When you reach out to us, you’ll always find:
- Private, one-on-one conversations, in person or via text
- Clear explanations
- Counseling and support
- Zero pressure
We’ll talk, text, or chat—whatever makes you most comfortable. This is about you and your comfort level.
Adoption Plans That Work for You
Every adoption journey is different. You’ll be able to choose the type of adoption that feels right:
- Open Adoption: Stay in contact with the adoptive family.
- Semi-Open Adoption: Communication happens through an attorney.
- Closed Adoption: No contact after placement, if that’s what you prefer.
You’re in Control
Reaching out doesn’t mean you’re making a final decision. It just means you’re exploring your options. Adoption is deeply personal, and you’ll never be pressured or rushed. If you decide adoption isn’t the right path, that’s okay—we’ll respect your choice. We’ll walk alongside you if you want to take the next step. We’re here 24/7 to listen and support you. Call or text us at 800-333-5736, chat with us online, or email us—whatever feels easiest for you. Because at the end of the day, this is about giving you the time, space, and support to make the right choice.
POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:
Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.