I am in a hurry. Why should do an adoption rather than put my baby in a baby box at the fire station?


If you think adoption and a baby box are your best alternatives, then you obviously want what is best for your baby. While a baby box assures the safety of your baby, it may not be the best choice for your baby or you. Consider the following:

  1. Starting with what seems most important to you – TIME. If you work with us at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”), we can arrange for the adoption of your baby the same day you contact us. Our attorneys have over 90 years of combined legal experience handling adoptions; we have many, carefully screened, fully investigated, loving families, who are ready to take in a child on a moment’s notice; and we will handle everything compassionately, efficiently, and as quickly as you want, without you feeling pressured or hurried. At the very least, call us and see what we can do to help you. Our contact information is below. A member of our full-time, adoption team – NOT AN ANSWERING SERVICE – will answer your call 24/7/365.
  2. Without question, if you put your baby in a baby box, the baby will go directly into the foster care system rather than a forever home.
  3. Putting your baby up for adoption, or more correctly, making an adoption plan for your baby, enables you the option of selecting the adoptive parents or parent for your baby if you work with an adoption law firm, like Kirsh & Kirsh, a national adoption agency, or a local adoption agency.
  4. While it might not now be important to you to receive updates about your child, you may want that in the future. At Kirsh & Kirsh, we have all of our clients create updates and store them in the Cloud for our birth mothers, because in our years of experience handling adoptions, we know that many times birth mothers change their minds about receiving updates. If you use a baby box, you have no chance of ever getting updates.
  5. For some women, taking a little extra time to do an adoption lets them feel like they actually planned their baby’s future rather than abandoning their baby. Of course, using a baby box assures the safety of their baby, but the extra time to do an adoption may provide a greater sense of peace in your decision.

If you would like to explore adoption, we, at Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride themselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Westfield or Indianapolis, Mooresville or Bloomington, Evansville or Vincennes, South Bend or Highland, Goshen or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan.

There is always a family waiting to love your child. We have lots of family options from which you can choose, all of whom are wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices which family adopts your baby & extent of contacts you want after the child’s birth.

You can call, text and or email us anytime – call/text: 800-333-5736, contact us, or Facebook message. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans.  Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption”.  If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant mom’s search results in Google.

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