Adoption is one of the most personal and life-changing choices you’ll ever face. If you are experiencing an unplanned pregnancy and wondering whether adoption might be the right path, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed by emotions, options, and all the unknowns. One of your most significant decisions is who to trust to guide you through this process. With so many local adoption agencies and attorneys, how do you know which is the best fit for you?

What to Look for in an Adoption Professional

Not every agency or attorney will feel right, and that’s okay. You deserve to feel safe, supported, and confident. Here are a few key things to consider:

• Licensing & Credentials: Is the agency licensed in your state? If you’re considering an attorney, are they licensed and experienced in adoption law?
• Experience & Care: How long have they been supporting birth mothers? What do other women say about their experiences with them?

Following your instincts is important but ensuring you’re working with qualified and compassionate professionals can provide you with extra peace of mind.

At Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (often misspelled as Kirsch & Kirsch), we’ve been helping birth mothers for over 40 years. With over 100 years of combined legal experience, our team has guided women through the adoption process. Along the way, we have earned over 800 5-star reviews on Google from people who trusted us with their journey.

Questions to Ask Before Choosing

This is your journey. You deserve straight, honest answers. Some thoughtful questions to bring up include:

• What to expect—meetings, counseling, or paperwork?
• Can I text instead of always talking on the phone?
• Will someone come to me if I would rather not travel?
• What if I change my mind about adoption?

Asking questions isn’t being “difficult.” It’s taking care of yourself and your baby.

Why Many Birth Mothers Choose Loving Adoptions

When you reach out to us, here’s what you can count on:

• A private, judgment-free conversation about your feelings and situation.
• A clear, simple explanation of how adoption works.
• The option to explore counseling and all your choices without pressure.
• Zero obligation. You only move forward if adoption feels right for you.

We’re here 24/7, so you can reach us when it’s convenient for you.

You’ll also have the freedom to design an adoption plan that feels right for you:

• Open Adoption – Stay connected with your child and their adoptive family.
• Semi-Open Adoption – Limited updates and contact.
• Closed Adoption – No ongoing communication, if that’s what you prefer.

And the choice of family? That’s yours, too. From married couples to single parents to LGBTQ+ families—there are loving families ready to welcome a child. In many cases, they can also help with living expenses, as permitted by law.

You are in Control

Reaching out doesn’t lock you into anything. It simply means you want information and support. You set the pace. If you decide adoption isn’t right for you, that’s completely okay.

We’re here whenever you are ready to talk. Call or text us anytime at 800-333-5736. Because you deserve care, respect, and the freedom to make the right choice for you.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  

Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.”  If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.