Cairs Admin, Author at Loving Adoptions

I PLAN TO PUT MY BABY UP FOR ADOPTION BUT THE ADOPTION AGENCY WANTS ME TO MOVE TO ANOTHER STATE. TO GIVE MY BABY UP FOR ADOPTION DO I HAVE TO MOVE TO ANOTHER STATE IF THE ADOPTIVE PARENTS DO NOT LIVE IN MY STATE?

NO — ABSOLUTEY, NOT!!! You do not have to move to another state, should NOT do so, and should be very leery of a national adoption agency or local adoption agency that asks you to move for these reasons:

Adoptions between states are common and easy to accomplish for competent and ethical adoption agencies and other adoption professionals that DO NOT require the birth mother to move out of her state of residence.
If an adoption agency or adoption attorney wants you to move to another state, alarm bells should go off in your head. You should be very suspicious of their intentions and whether they can be trusted.
If you move from your home to another state, you become completely dependent on the prospective adoptive parents and/or the adoption agency. What if you decide not to give up your baby for adoption, or more correctly, make an adoption plan – will they still pay your expenses to return home? What if you have a C-section and need more time to recover — will they pay for your expenses during your extended recovery period?

If you would like more information about adoption and available living expenses during and after your pregnancy, we, at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – would be happy to help. Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride themselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment.

At Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, the four adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh have over 100 years of combined legal experience arranging adoptions. Kirsh & Kirsh has been in existence since 1981. We know Indiana Adoption Law inside and out. We can find a wonderful home for your baby regardless of your social and medical history. Please be honest with us and do not worry that no one will want your baby. There is always a family waiting to love your child. We have lots of wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices about which family adopts your baby and the extent of contacts you want after the child’s birth. Conversely, if you do not wish to choose the family, we will pick the best family on your behalf.

As attorneys, we at Kirsh & Kirsh, have very high standards for the prospective adoptive parents we choose to represent. All our waiting families are carefully screened and thoroughly investigated. We will arrange for you to have contact with the family you choose on your terms, without families trying to reach you at all hours of the day or night.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Rensselaer or Indianapolis, Bedford or Bloomington, Evansville or Scottsburg, Munster or South Bend, Warsaw or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, Michigan, or Illinois.

You can call, text and or email us anytime – call/text: 800-333-5736, contact us, or Facebook message. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER: Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption”. If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant mom’s search results in Google.

I HAVE PRIVATE INSURANCE WITH A LARGE DEDUCTIBLE. IF I PUT MY BABY UP FOR ADOPTION, WILL I HAVE TO PAY FOR ANY OF THE MEDICAL COSTS FOR THE DELIVERY AND BIRTH OF THE BABY?

If you give up your baby for adoption with one of the adoptive families represented by Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”), you will NOT have the responsibility for paying for any of the medical costs associated with the birth of the child or your prenatal, delivery, or postpartum medical expenses related to the birth, even if you have a high deductible medical insurance policy. Kirsh & Kirsh will do two things to provide you protection from responsibility for those charges:

We have a staff member who will act as an Authorized Medicaid Representative to see if you qualify for pregnancy Medicaid to cover the uninsured medical expenses. This will require very little effort on your part and has the ADDED ADVANTAGE TO YOU of assuring that the uninsured medical expenses will get paid IF YOU DECIDE TO PARENT THE BABY.
If you do not qualify for pregnancy Medicaid, we will see that our clients, the adoptive parents, cover those expenses.

While this should be true of any local adoption agency, national adoption agencies, and adoptive parents, you cannot be certain. Kirsh & Kirsh will see that you do not have any financial responsibility for those charges after the consent to adoption is signed for one of the adoptive families represented by Kirsh & Kirsh to adopt.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Kokomo or Indianapolis, French Lick or Bloomington, Evansville or Clarksville, or South Bend, Huntington or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, Michigan, or Illinois.

You can call, text and or email us anytime – call/text: 800-333-5736, contact us, or Facebook message. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

MY PRIVATE INSURANCE WILL COVER MY MEDICAL EXPENSES BUT WILL NOT COVER THE BABY’S MEDICAL EXPENSES, IF I PUT THE BABY UP FOR ADOPTION. WILL I HAVE TO PAY FOR THOSE MYSELF OR WILL THE ADOPTIVE PARENTS PAY THEM FOR ME?

We, at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”), responded to a similar question about high-deductible, private insurance and stated that if an expectant mother or birth mother comes to us to put up her baby for adoption, or more correctly, make an adoption plan for the baby, we will see that her uninsured medical expenses get paid, without her having to pay them. Likewise, we will see that the baby’s medical expenses get paid. In fact, federal law requires most health insurance companies of adoptive parents to provide medical insurance coverage for an adopted child on the same basis as a child born into the family. While we cannot speak to how all local adoption agencies, national adoption agencies, or adoptive parents represented by law firms other than Kirsh & Kirsh, we, at Kirsh & Kirsh try to make the adoption process as easy as possible. We know that nothing will make putting a baby up for adoption easy, but we can make it easier by removing as many of the stressors as possible, including the financial ones.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Noblesville or Indianapolis, Sellersburg or Bloomington, Evansville or Sullivan, East Chicago or South Bend, Angola or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, Michigan, or Illinois.

You can call, text and or email us anytime – call/text: 800-333-5736, contact us, or Facebook message. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.