HOW DOES THE “GIFT OF ADOPTION” APPLY TO ME IF I AM A BIRTH PARENT THINKING ABOUT PUTTING MY BABY UP FOR ADOPTION?

Some birth parents think of giving prospective adoptive parents the gift of a child as the meaning of the “Gift of Adoption.” Of course, giving an adoptive family a baby is absolutely an AMAZING gift, as close to GOD-LIKE as any gift imaginable. In fact, one would be hard-pressed to think of a more unselfish, generous gift one person can give to another, but it only describes part of the magnitude of the gift. Another perspective is that the child receives the gift of a loving, secure, stable home with the chance to experience all that life offers, including good education and the opportunity to develop and explore his or her natural talents and interests. Furthermore, do not diminish the gift a birth parent gives herself or himself, knowing that their child is being cared for and loved by people who cannot wait to share their blessings with a child. It is okay for a birth parent, not ready or able to parent a child, to feel a sense of relief that they have secured a wonderful, loving home in which many, if not most, of their child’s wants and needs, will be satisfied.

We, at Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”) — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride ourselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment. We cannot make adoption an easy choice, but we can make it less scary by removing some of the unknowns. Ultimately, a birth parent will have to decide if adoption is in their own best interests and their child’s best interests. We, at Kirsh & Kirsh, will not and cannot make that decision for anyone, but we can provide information and answers to questions – that way, you can make a well-informed decision.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you with the information you seek without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us again. The Kirsh Boys have 90 YEARS OF COMBINED EXPERIENCE practicing adoption law. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Connersville or Indianapolis, New Albany or Bedford, Evansville or Sullivan, South Bend or Goshen, Rolling Prairie or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan. We have lots of wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You choose which family adopts your baby and the extent of contacts you want after the baby is born.

You can call, text, and or email us anytime -call: 317-575-5555, text: 317-721-2030, email: AdoptionSupport@kirsh.com, or Facebook message: https://www.facebook.com/KirshandKirsh/. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption”. If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.

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