Not Ready To Parent My Baby And Considering Adoption


If you contact an Indiana-based adoption law firm like Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”), whether you live in Indiana or outside of Indiana, you can take advantage of Indiana law which provides birth mothers options for fathers who will not respond to their text messages or calls. One such law is “Pre-birth Notice.” Basically, if an adoption agency or adoption attorney can arrange for the named, birth father to “actually” receive the notice (in other words, put it in his hand) prior to the birth of the baby and the father does not respond to the notice within 30 days of his receipt of it, further notice of the adoption and the father’s consent to the adoption are not needed. Very importantly, this can be done BEFORE the baby’s birth, does NOT require him to sign ANYTHING, and does not require the birth mother to give up her baby for adoption, or, more correctly, make an adoption plan, if he does not respond. The “Pre-birth Notice” Statute has proven useful in dealing with uncooperative alleged fathers. By the way, the statute does NOT require the mother to know for sure that the man to whom the notice is given really is the father. Therefore, if it is possible that more than one man could be the father of the baby, the notice can be given to each of them. 

If you would like more information about Pre-birth Notice, your other options regarding the father of the baby, or would like to explore adoption, we, at Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride themselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment. 

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Greenfield or Indianapolis, Columbus or Terre Haute, Evansville or Newburgh, South Bend or Michigan City, Auburn or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan.

There is always a family waiting to love your child. We have lots of family options from which you can choose, all of whom are wonderful, carefully screened, loving families FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices which family adopts your baby & extent of contacts you want after the child’s birth.

You can call, text and or email us anytime – call/text: 800-333-5736contact us, or Facebook message. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:  Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans.  Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption.”  If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.

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