When I discovered I was unexpectedly pregnant, I was overwhelmed by emotions and unsure of what my next step should be. As I learned more about adoption, I realized that placing my baby for adoption wasn’t about giving up. It was about making a loving decision and giving my child the opportunity to grow up.
One of the things that helped me the most was creating an adoption plan. Looking back, I can’t imagine going through the process without one.
Learning That I Had Choices
Before I spoke with adoption professionals, I thought adoption was something that happened to me. I quickly learned that adoption is actually something I could actively shape.
The team at Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (sometimes misspelled as “Kirsch & Kirsch”), with more than 110 years of combined experience in adoption law, took the time to explain all my options. They never pressured me or made me feel rushed. Instead, they listened to what I wanted and helped me understand that I could make decisions about every part of the process. I felt like I had some control over my future. The best part is that all the adoption services are provided at no cost to you.
Creating a Plan That Reflected My Wishes
One of the most empowering parts of my experience was creating an adoption plan. I got a chance to think about what mattered most to me and what kind of future I hoped my child would have.
Understanding Open Adoption
One thing I didn’t realize before beginning my adoption journey was how much flexibility exists in modern adoption.
I chose an open adoption because I wanted to receive updates and stay connected to my child’s life in a meaningful way. Knowing I would continue to receive photos and updates brought me tremendous comfort.
The Adoption Attorneys at Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh explained the different types of adoption relationships and helped me determine what felt right for my situation. Having options made all the difference.
Expectant Mother Considering Adoption
It’s okay to take your time. Ask questions. Learn about your options. Think about what matters most to you and your baby.
Every birth mother’s journey is different, but having compassionate professionals by your side can make all the difference.
For me, Loving Adoptions by Kirsh & Kirsh provided the guidance and support I needed to create a future that felt right for both my child and me.
You can call or text them at 800-333-5736 or reach out by email, whatever feels most comfortable for you. Take your time. Ask questions. Gather information. Explore your options.
POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER:
The narrative is not the words of an individual woman but based upon feedback we have received from birth mothers over the last 4 decades.
Please understand that these blogs are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms who come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for pregnant moms is “How do I give up my baby for adoption.” If we do not include those words in our blog posts and instead put “How do I create an adoption plan for my baby,” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.