Cairs Admin, Author at Loving Adoptions

IF THE FAMILY I PICK LIVES IN A DIFFERENT STATE THAN ME, HOW DOES THE ADOPTION WORK?

If you work with us at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”) and either the prospective adoptive parents or you live in Indiana, the adoption will take place under Indiana adoption laws, which many states have copied because they are so good. If the adoptive parents or you happen to live in Indiana, Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan, we, at Kirsh & Kirsh, have at least one attorney licensed in those states enabling us to handle all aspects of the adoption. If neither the adoptive parents nor the birth mother lives in Indiana, we can either work with an adoption attorney or adoption agency in the appropriate states or refer you to someone who can help you. Our services are ALWAYS free to birth mothers and expectant mothers. We know local adoption agencies, national adoption agencies, and experienced adoption attorneys in almost every state. Contacting Kirsh & Kirsh FIRST will assure you of finding a reputable, compassionate adoption professional to answer your questions and assist you if you would like to explore adoption and save you a lot of time.

We, at Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride ourselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment. We cannot make adoption an easy choice, but we can make it less scary by removing some of the unknowns. Ultimately, a birth parent will have to decide if adoption is in their own best interests and the best interests of their child. We, at Kirsh & Kirsh, will not and cannot make that decision for anyone, but we can provide information and answers to questions – that way, you can make a well-informed decision.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you with the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. The Kirsh Boys have 90 YEARS OF COMBINED EXPERIENCE practicing adoption law. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Tipton or Indianapolis, Columbus or Bloomington, Evansville or French Lick, South Bend or Merrillville, Muncie or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan. We have lots of wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices about which family adopts your baby and the extent of contacts you want after the baby is born.

You can call, text, and or email us anytime -call: 317-575-5555, text: 317-721-2030, email: [email protected], or Facebook message: https://www.facebook.com/KirshandKirsh/. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE DISCLAIMER: Please understand that these blog posts are written in a way to use language that people use when searching for help with their adoption plans. Unfortunately, while all of us understand what positive adoption language means, most expectant moms that come to us at first do not understand what that means. The most common search term on the Internet for expectant moms is “how do I give up my baby for adoption”. If we do not include those words in our blog posts, and instead put “how do I create an adoption plan for my baby” then our website will not show up in most expectant moms’ search results in Google.

IF I PUT UP MY BABY FOR ADOPTION, CAN I CHOOSE THE ADOPTIVE PARENTS?

Most national adoption agencies and local adoption agencies give birth mothers and expectant mothers profiles of families from which they can choose. We, at Adoption Attorneys Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”) have always given birth parents control over selecting adoptive parents, among our fully investigated and carefully screened pool of hopeful, prospective adoptive parents. We have found that there is always a family waiting to love your child. Because of the size and scope of the Kirsh & Kirsh Adoption Program, we can offer birth parents a wide variety of waiting families from which to choose. On the other hand, if a birth parent would rather not make the choice, we will make the match. Some birth mothers have very specific criteria for the family they would want to adopt their children but do not want to make the decision. At Kirsh & Kirsh, we give the birth mother and father, if the mother chooses to involve him, control over all aspects of the adoption to the extent the law allows it. We handle all adoptions in accordance with all applicable laws, which we have found gives birth parents additional peace of mind that their child will go to a loving, secure, safe, and happy home.

We, at Kirsh & Kirsh — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride ourselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you with the information you seek, without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us, again. The Kirsh Boys have 90 YEARS OF COMBINED EXPERIENCE practicing adoption law. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in New Castle or Indianapolis, Bloomington or Richmond, Evansville or New Albany, South Bend or Goshen, Decatur or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan.

We have lots of family options from which you can choose, all of whom are wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You make all the choices of which family adopts your baby and the extent of contact you want after the child’s birth.

You can call, text and or email us anytime -call: 317-575-5555, text: 317-721-2030, email: [email protected], or Facebook message: https://www.facebook.com/KirshandKirsh/. We answer our office phone 24 hours a day, every single day. We try to respond to emails and text messages within minutes of receipt.

HOW DOES THE “GIFT OF ADOPTION” APPLY TO ME IF I AM A BIRTH PARENT THINKING ABOUT PUTTING MY BABY UP FOR ADOPTION?

Some birth parents think of giving prospective adoptive parents the gift of a child as the meaning of the “Gift of Adoption.” Of course, giving an adoptive family a baby is absolutely an AMAZING gift, as close to GOD-LIKE as any gift imaginable. In fact, one would be hard-pressed to think of a more unselfish, generous gift one person can give to another, but it only describes part of the magnitude of the gift. Another perspective is that the child receives the gift of a loving, secure, stable home with the chance to experience all that life offers, including good education and the opportunity to develop and explore his or her natural talents and interests. Furthermore, do not diminish the gift a birth parent gives herself or himself, knowing that their child is being cared for and loved by people who cannot wait to share their blessings with a child. It is okay for a birth parent, not ready or able to parent a child, to feel a sense of relief that they have secured a wonderful, loving home in which many, if not most, of their child’s wants and needs, will be satisfied.

We, at Kirsh & Kirsh, P.C. (“Kirsh & Kirsh”) — or the “Kirsh Boys,” as the adoption attorneys at Kirsh & Kirsh are sometimes called – Steve, and his brothers, Joel and Rob, and his son, Grant, pride ourselves on answering questions about adoption and explaining the process without pressure or judgment. We cannot make adoption an easy choice, but we can make it less scary by removing some of the unknowns. Ultimately, a birth parent will have to decide if adoption is in their own best interests and their child’s best interests. We, at Kirsh & Kirsh, will not and cannot make that decision for anyone, but we can provide information and answers to questions – that way, you can make a well-informed decision.

Our contact information is below. We will answer your questions and provide you with the information you seek without cost or obligation on your part. In other words, talking to us is FREE and does NOT mean you ever have to talk or text with us again. The Kirsh Boys have 90 YEARS OF COMBINED EXPERIENCE practicing adoption law. We can help you in finding an AMAZING, WONDERFUL, adoptive home for your precious baby, whether you live in Connersville or Indianapolis, New Albany or Bedford, Evansville or Sullivan, South Bend or Goshen, Rolling Prairie or Ft. Wayne, or any Indiana county or city in between, or ANYWHERE in Tennessee, Mississippi, Kentucky, or Michigan. We have lots of wonderful, carefully screened, loving families, FROM INDIANA AND ALL OVER THE COUNTRY (married, single, Lesbian, and Gay) who cannot wait to welcome a baby into their hearts and homes and are happy to assist with living expenses to the fullest extent allowed by law. You choose which family adopts your baby and the extent of contacts you want after the baby is born.